I am officially off all prescription meds. It took me 2 years and almost 40 pounds to reach this point. The last drug to go, you ask? Birth control pills.
No, Michael and I are NOT trying to have a third O! Back in October, Michael gave me a wonderful gift: he had a vasectomy.
I am the oldest of 5 children, and I always thought I would have a big family. In fact, Jackson was such a dream baby that we both thought we would have 3 or 4 kids.
Alex rocked our world. I had a terrible pregnancy: couldn't sit down (ladies--you get me), I was nauseated from 8 weeks on, and he was almost 6 weeks early. Alex did not want to breathe or eat on his own for almost 3 weeks, and he developed severe dairy, wheat, and citric acid allergies. Nebulizers, terbutaline, steroids, HEPA filters, dairy-free/wheat-free foods, and doctors appointments ruled the first few years of the child's life. Alex still has asthma and allergy issues, but we have come a long way in the past few years. Too be perfectly honest, Michael and I are scared to have a third child. We now have two healthy boys, and this might not be the most clever explanation...but we don't want to tempt fate.
Tempting fate aside, we also think it is irresponsible to have more kids. We both work and I travel all the time. Plus, kids are expensive! Two kids are manageable: we don't need a minivan or other large vehicle, they can share a room, and we can afford to take our small family out to dinner, on trips, to movies, etc. After this May, we are done with preschool tuition. I gave away all of our baby stuff. I cannot imagine going through another pregnancy, a 3rd c-section, and an infant.
A few weeks after Michael's vasectomy, a friend of a friend had a beautiful baby and I read all about it on her blog. Was I weepy, depressed, or even a tiny bit sad that stage of my life was at an end? Nope. I was happy for her, but so incredibly relieved that it wasn't me getting up at all hours of the night. I passed the test, and Michael and I are really excited about our future as parents of two super-cool dudes.